Why Is This Still Coming Up?
“I can’t believe I’m doing this again! After all the work I’ve done around abundance, why are my worries about lack still coming up?!”
Have you had this or a similar thought about something you’ve worked really hard on over your lifetime and felt blindsided by it coming up again? I sure have! In fact, that quote was a conversation I had with myself recently.
It can be about lack, worthiness, being good enough, getting it wrong, or any number of things. Unfortunately, the things we work on don’t magically resolve permanently, but instead gradually diminish in their power over time. Diminishing the power of an old story requires that we replace those old stories with meaningful alternatives that support the narrative we WANT for our life. That takes focused and persistent effort.
I have spent many years on personal development and part of that has focused on discovering how I came up with the story that there wasn’t enough (of anything) in my life. Having trained myself to SEE abundance everywhere, I can use that to reassure myself that it’s there for me as well as others. I’m now at a point where MOST of the time I feel that my life is abundant. I recognize that’s a huge win! Still, every once in a while I hit a snag, and I revert to the old story.
While at times it can be frustrating, I’ve learned not to beat myself up when I revert to old patterns because I know how the story of ‘not enough’ shows up for me: feeling like normal things are too risky, like I’m not doing enough, like there isn’t enough time, like things I want/need are too expensive. Now, I can catch those feelings before they take over and deal with them quickly. Usually all I need to do is provide reassurance to my inner child that I can manage things, and I’m once again enjoying the freedom of feeling abundant.
Worries are normal! They only become problematic when they take over and derail your efforts towards your dreams and goals.
All of the negative little voices in our heads have one thing in common, they use fear to undercut our motivation to go after our dreams. Those little voices love to whisper that everything would be safer if we never stepped outside of our comfort zone. They tell us we can’t or shouldn’t follow our dreams and provide a myriad of reasons why not.
One glaring fault in that subconscious ‘logic’ is that everything we want that we don’t already have involves doing something we’ve never done to get there. The unknown is risky and that negative little voice hates risk of any kind. Those subconscious thoughts present the anti-motivational speech in whatever ways most concern you.
No matter what your inner fears are, your subconscious is a master at using those to try to keep you playing small and comfortable. Fear keeps you in your predictable, known little world where it’s relatively ‘safe’. We know however, that those fears aren’t true! Your subconscious lies, and you deserve to go after what you want in a way that brings you joy!
As good as our subconscious is at derailing us, the amazing news is that you can also train it to work with you towards your goals instead of against you. Life-changing!!
That can be accomplished in many ways and they all take varying amounts of time. Amy and I are impatient, so when we came across a way to fast-track that process, we were pretty excited. We used this process on ourselves and realized that by essentially blowing up the old beliefs and rebuilding them from the ground up, it saves a ton of time and effort. This process tackles most of the main roadblocks to personal peace and professional success ALL AT ONCE! The changes we saw in our lives were nearly immediate and definitely impactful.
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This process isn’t for the faint-of-heart and yes, it can be really intense. That might be unsettling for some people. Know that you are in charge of how deep into your own subconscious you go, what you discover, and exactly what you decide to do with that information. We provide and hold the space, offer the tools for unlocking your subconscious, and give you the guidance to explore and shift what’s holding you back; but you are actually in control of every step of that journey.
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